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Blog EntryMOM'S GUIDE - 'Mom Tips: Then and Now'Apr 30, '05 1:38 PM
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Over the past 70 years, the parenting advice offered in Babytalk has ranged from right on the money to utterly bizarre! Here, some then-and-now tips that show how far we've come.

Work vs. stay-at-home
Then: "Perhaps it should be a requirement of every wife that she hold at least one position outside the home before marriage. This is probably the only way she can realize the day-in and day-out grind her breadwinner knows." (September 1943)

Now: "Moms should realize that the decision to return to work or stay home is highly personal. Whatever your choice, if you can think through why you're doing it and feel good about your decision, you'll be less anxious if others question you." (November 2004)

Keep it clean
Then: "Use soap or detergent, sponge or cloth, and scrub, scrub, scrub on a daily basis to keep the household squeaky-clean." (April 1960)

Now: "
It's no surprise that sleep deprivation is one of the leading causes of stress among new parents. So it's important to nap whenever you can -- especially when your baby sleeps. Don't say, 'Now's my chance to clean the house.' Instead, turn off the phone and hit the hay." (October 2003)

Feedback:  Whatever mom's time, (your mom, your mom's-mom, being mom now) we all have the same qualification!  BEING A WIFE, (SINGLE MOM TOO!) MOTHER TO OUR CHILDREN, AN EMPLOYEE AT YOUR WORK, AN ASSISTANT TO THE HOUSE (sometimes, it's hard to think that we are not the boss yet, even to our own house, grrrrr!)... TOO TIRING EVERLASTING HOUSEHOLD CHORES! Tips? Here's the tips coming from me.... Release! Breath! get-away with it! (Not with the husband, i mean! ) enjoy and relax... DO EXTRA SHOPPING! Go to the fitness gym! give extra time to yourself! Pamper yourself atleast! HOW? You know better than me!

Now, share me what's your tip!




 


lalaineb wrote on May 1, '05
Girl, the best tip for moms and women in general which I have learned lately is to "love yourself". If you do not have 'self-love' and allow yourself to get burnt-out, whether by work, family duties, household chores, high standards (all mothers suffer from this), guilt, etc., etc., it means that you don't love your husband and kids too. Why? Who's going to love and take care of them when you're not there, or if you cannot function properly because you just had enough?

Being a single mom once in my life has taught me that I need to survive well for my child, and that means allowing myself breathing space and rest and personal happiness. Because if I'm "whole", I can be there for my family.
ecargdom wrote on May 1, '05
BRAVO! That's my girl! That's true! My mom always tell me when she always see me crying because of painful relationship, she always tell me, "love yourself", leave some space of love to yourself.... If you give everything and you dont have anything left, maybe you'll see yourself in the garbage, doesnt function at all! Till then, i realize that being a person, whether being a mom, colleague, friend, daughter, or whatever... I'm always happy being what i am!

lalaineb wrote on May 2, '05
Thank goodness for smart mom advise. What would we do without them ?

Smile :)
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